Do deceased parents help? Communication with deceased relatives
In the first days after separation from the body, the soul communicates with its native places and meets with deceased loved ones, or rather, with their souls. In other words, he communicates with what was precious in earthly life.
She gains a wonderful new ability - spiritual vision. Our body is a reliable gate with which we are closed from the world of spirits, so that our sworn enemies, fallen spirits, did not invade us and did not destroy us. Although they are so cunning that they find workarounds. And some serve them without seeing them themselves. But spiritual vision, which opens after death, allows the soul to see not only the spirits present in the surrounding space in huge numbers, in their true form, but also their deceased loved ones, who help the lonely soul get used to new, unusual conditions for it.
Many of those who have post-mortem experiences have spoken of encounters with deceased relatives or acquaintances. These meetings took place on earth, sometimes shortly before the soul left the body, and sometimes in the setting of the otherworldly world. For example, one woman who experienced temporary death heard a doctor tell her family that she was dying. Coming out of her body and rising up, she saw her dead relatives and friends. She recognized them, and they were glad that they met her.
Another woman saw her relatives greeting her and shaking her hands. They were dressed in white, rejoicing and looking happy. “And suddenly they turned their backs on me and began to move away; and my grandmother, looking over her shoulder, told me: “We will see you later, not this time.” She died at 96, and here she looked, well, forty to forty-five years old, healthy and happy.”
One man says that while he was dying of a heart attack at one end of the hospital, at the same time his own sister was dying of an attack of diabetes at the other end of the hospital. “When I left my body,” he says, “I suddenly met my sister. I was very happy about this because I loved her very much. While talking to her, I wanted to follow her, but she, turning to me, ordered me to stay where I was, explaining that my time had not yet come. When I woke up, I told my doctor that I had met my sister who had just passed away. The doctor didn't believe me. However, at my persistent request, he sent a nurse to check and found out that she had recently died, as I told him.” And there are a lot of similar stories. A soul that has passed into the afterlife often meets there those who were close to it. Although this meeting is usually short-lived. Because great trials and private judgment await the soul ahead. And only after a private trial is it decided whether the soul should be with its loved ones, or whether it is destined for another place. After all, the souls of dead people do not wander of their own free will, wherever they want. The Orthodox Church teaches that after the death of the body, the Lord determines for each soul its temporary place of residence - either in heaven or in hell. Therefore, meetings with the souls of deceased relatives should be accepted not as a rule, but as exceptions allowed by the Lord for the benefit of recently deceased people who either have yet to live on earth, or, if their souls are frightened by their new situation, help them.
The existence of the soul extends beyond the coffin, where it transfers everything that it is accustomed to, that was dear to it, and that it learned in its temporary earthly life. Way of thinking, life rules, inclinations - everything is transferred by the soul to the afterlife. Therefore, it is natural that at first the soul, by the grace of God, meets those who were closer to it in earthly life. But it happens that deceased loved ones appear to living people.
And this does not mean their imminent demise. The reasons can be different, and often incomprehensible to people living on earth. For example, after the resurrection of the Savior, many dead also appeared in Jerusalem (Matthew 27:52-53). But there were also cases when the dead appeared to admonish the living who were leading an unrighteous lifestyle. It is necessary, however, to distinguish true visions from demonic obsessions, after which only fear and an anxious state of mind remain. For cases of the appearance of souls from the afterlife are rare and always serve to admonish the living.
So, a few days before the ordeal (two or three), the soul, accompanied by protective angels, is on earth. She can visit those places that were dear to her, or go where she wanted to visit during her lifetime. The doctrine of the presence of the soul on earth during the first days after death existed in Orthodox Church already in the 4th century. Patristic tradition reports that the Angel who accompanied him in the desert St. Macarius of Alexandria, said: “The soul of the deceased receives from the Angel guarding it relief from the grief it feels from separation from the body, which is why good hope is born in it. For for two days the soul, together with the Angels who are with it, is allowed to walk on the earth wherever it wants. Therefore, the soul that loves the body sometimes wanders near the house in which it was separated from the body, sometimes near the coffin in which the body is laid, and thus spends two days, like a bird, looking for a nest for itself. And a virtuous soul walks in those places in which it used to do the truth...”
It should be said that these days are not a mandatory rule for everyone. They are given only to those who have retained attachment to earthly worldly life, and for whom it is difficult to part with it and know that they will never again live in the world they left. But not all souls that part with their bodies are attached to earthly life. So, for example, the holy saints, who were not at all attached to worldly things, lived in constant anticipation of the transition to another world, are not even attracted to the places where they did good deeds, but immediately begin their ascent to heaven.
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A week after Easter, each of us remembers our deceased loved ones. This time is called Radonitsa.
We visit the graves of deceased relatives, remembering what they were like, what role they played in our destiny during life and continue to play after their death.
One of the most difficult times in life is when a loved one dies. We miss his physical presence, his hugs and his voice - in short, those physical attributes that we associate with our family, friends or close relatives.
It is difficult to accept the fact that a loved one leaves us forever and moves on to the next stage of existence. But life takes a new turn and offers you the opportunity to see the other side of death.
You have a chance to realize that your deceased relative was much more than just the physical form: skin, muscles and bones. We are talking about the spiritual, not the physical component of a person.
After all, the body was only his earthly shell, an external disguise, in which for some time the indestructible essence of man was located.
The death of your loved ones, in addition to suffering and grief, brings you new discovery and understanding, and you are given the opportunity to strengthen your relationship with the soul of a person close to you.
This understanding will help you awaken and realize that your departed loved ones are much more than just a physical shell.
Here are 8 important things you should understand about the death of your loved ones.
After the death of loved ones
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Numerous clinical and scientific studies indicate that after death, you will be reunited with your departed loved ones.
Many people who have experienced clinical death, came into contact with deceased loved ones. Some have also been able to experience this during sleep, using ordinary or more ethereal senses.
Unfortunately, only a few manage to experience such an experience. What should you do to get in touch with deceased relatives? There is no clear answer.
Pray more so that you can feel the presence of your loved ones; meditate to become calm and peaceful, so you can feel their subtle presence; solitude with nature, because their souls are everywhere where there is peace and quiet.
Analyze everything you know about the souls of the dead and about contact after death with deceased people. Do you think this is possible? Or you yourself have experienced something similar once or even several times.
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If you have some doubts, remember that “spiritual” or non-physical contact is always weightless, short-term and barely perceptible, in contrast to physical contact, which is more familiar and ordinary for us.
Now take a few deep breaths. If the opportunity arises, be sure to watch the film “Talking to Heaven.” One of the scenes in this wonderful film, based on the book by James Van Prague, depicts an episode of a dying old man and his reunion with his loved ones and pets. This exciting and very touching scene cannot help but touch the heart.
Death in different cultures
2. Celebration, because they have completed their earthly life!
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Many cultures celebrate the death of a relative as a real holiday, because their loved one has completed his earthly life and is moving on to a better world.
They also understand that sooner or later the long-awaited meeting with him will happen, because they accept the fact that spiritual life, unlike physical life, is endless.
This understanding makes one feel the sadness and pain associated with the death of a loved one, but at the same time feel joy that they have ended their earthly existence and gone to heaven.
To put it in more accessible terms, it's like a bittersweet feeling, like when a young man graduates from school: he's happy to have graduated, but sad because he's leaving what has become his second home.
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Unfortunately, the reaction of many people to the passing of a loved one is quite predictable: severe pain, suffering and sadness. Few people would think of feeling joy because they have lost a loved one.
Agree, rejoicing at the death of a loved one is somehow unnatural and illogical. Think back to times when you felt conflicting emotions and how you dealt with them.
One thing is absolutely certain: in matters of the perception of death, a person is at a rather low level of development, he has not yet learned to think from a spiritual point of view and perceives death as a physiological process, and not a spiritual one.
For a deeper understanding, one more example can be given. Imagine how incredibly sore your feet would be after walking all day in uncomfortable shoes. Now think how wonderful it would be at the end of the day to take off those hated shoes and place your feet in a bath of warm water. Something similar happens to the body after death, especially when the person is old, sick or infirm.
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Remember that your deceased loved one is in a better place now. Of course, provided that it is not Hitler or another vile villain who did a lot of bad things during his earthly life.
Remember your best days, your happiest, healthiest and most energetic moments, and then multiply them by a million. The soul of a departed person experiences approximately the same sensations in heaven if he did not commit evil during his earthly life.
Agree, in this way, death no longer seems so terrible. The soul feels so good that it merges with this light and the pure energy that the other world emits.
Perhaps it sounds too good to be true. But sometimes during earthly life we are accustomed to struggle and experience a lot of disappointments, so that, as a rule, we wait for new bad news.
This is why it is so important to accept what the souls of our deceased relatives afterlife life is much better and calmer than on earth. They enjoy the light and freedom that heaven has given them.
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Here is another sad story, which, nevertheless, has a very deep meaning. A mother who lost her only son decided to heal her grief by helping other people.
Every week she brought a bowl of soup to a homeless person, and each time, helping a homeless person, she silently repeated the name of her late son and imagined her dear face. She focused her thoughts on the happy times they spent together.
Instead of wallowing in sadness and pain, she decided to help those in need and remember joyful moments, thereby easing the pain of loss.
How to accept the death of a loved one
4. You can focus on three important elements: anticipation, joy and gratitude.
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When you lose a loved one, try focusing on these emotions. They will help you take your mind off grief and pain and indulge in kinder feelings.
You can look forward to the moment when you will meet again your loved one who has left this world. You may also experience the joy of knowing that the soul of a loved one is in a better place.
Imagine that she is in beautiful green pastures and free from the trials and tribulations that she endured during her earthly life.
And you should also feel grateful for all the wonderful times you had together and all the wonderful memories you made. So when your sadness becomes too much, try to focus on these three sensations.
Focusing on these positive feelings will ease your grief and suffering and will also help you remember that life and love are eternal.
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Think about a deep loss or disappointment in your life and how you could apply this threefold formula in your life.
Here's another story from a heartbroken mother: Rachel lost her son less than a year ago.
“The past eleven months have been a period of greatest pain, sorrow and suffering, but also the greatest growth I have ever experienced.” An amazing statement, isn't it?
However, this is exactly what happened in Rachel's life. After the death of her beloved son, she began to help other children who had no parents. Moreover, according to her, her own son helps her in good deeds being in another dimension.
5. Your deceased loved ones sometimes try to tell you something.
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Each of us has heard that sometimes it happens that the soul of our deceased loved one tries to convey some important message to us living on earth.
How to hear it and interpret it correctly?
If you want to receive a message from your loved ones, of course you can visit a psychic. There are people who are intermediaries between the world of the living and the world of the dead.
However, many people take advantage of the fact that inconsolable relatives want to communicate with their deceased loved ones. Scammers pose as magicians, sorcerers and psychics and simply make a lot of money from this, without helping in any way, but on the contrary, aggravating the situation.
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You can also save time, money and nerves by not going to psychics. After all, in fact, all the messages that the souls of deceased relatives send to us are approximately the same: they just want you to be happy; know that they are alive and well; don't worry about them; enjoy life on Earth; and be sure that sooner or later you will meet them again.
First of all, free yourself from any feelings of guilt associated with the person who has left. Perhaps you once did not treat him very well, did something bad to him, or, on the contrary, did not do something to help him, did not say words of love.
Don't blame yourself for this, let go of the guilt.
Each soul leaves earthly life at its own time and you should not blame yourself for anything. This way you make things worse for both yourself and your loved one who has already left this world.
If you feel any guilt, free yourself from this feeling that simply devours you and does not bring any benefit to others or your own soul.
Such low energy emotions can prevent the emergence of more powerful and positive ones. energy flows, thereby poisoning your life.
In addition, there are many films on similar topics. An example of such a film would be the wonderful film “Ghost” with Demi Moore in the title role.
Remember how the heroine of the film communicated with the spirit of her deceased lover, and how throughout the entire film he tried to reveal to her the secret of his death.
Try to free yourself from various experiences associated with life and death. Believe me, only by looking at death as the next stage in the endless saga of life, can you feel relief and move on with your life.
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We've all wondered, "Why do we have to die? Why don't people live forever?" The answer is simple: in fact, we do not die, but simply change the external form of our existence.
This change looks like a terrible end to existence for those people who look at life only as an earthly existence.
Also imagine how boring and suffocating the constant monotony would be. Here's a simple example: think of a favorite movie and ask yourself: “Do I want to watch it every day for eternity?” The answer is obvious: of course not. It's the same with life.
Souls love variety, space and adventure, not stagnation and routine. Life implies eternal change. This is a great attitude when you free yourself from fears and understand that everything happens for a reason.
Be honest, have you ever wanted to stop time? This is a natural thought, especially when everything finally seems to be going well. You have a desire to stop this time.
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But a little reflection on this will help you understand how unfortunate this desire is. If you need more proof, just watch the movie Groundhog Day, where certain events happen over and over again.
Here's another sad but instructive story: Marla's three children died. It would seem that the woman should have fallen into the deepest depression, but instead she asked the following question: “How can I help others survive the death of their own child?”
Today this woman heads the group “Help to Parents Who Have Lost Children.” And this is an excellent demonstration of how we can always choose the high right path, even after experiencing a terrible misfortune - the loss of a loved one.
7. Use and share the gifts that the souls of deceased loved ones send you
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Some cultures believe that when a loved one dies, they send you a spiritual gift. Many people have noticed significant changes in their personality or energy after someone close to them died.
It is impossible to know someone well without receiving gifts from them. We are energetic beings living in energetic universe. All of our interactions result in a literal exchange of physical molecules and energy patterns.
Imagine that the souls of deceased loved ones can convey their love, ideas, inspiration to those who remain on Earth and whom they love very much.
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Accept these gifts, use them to ease your grief and improve yourself and the world around you.
This point is especially important for understanding some of the things associated with the death of a loved one. Look back, did the death of a loved one affect you in any way, from the point of view that you somehow became more perfect or changed something about yourself for the better?
8. Being able to rely on others
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If not always, then at least from time to time we need to lean on each other and feel the support of others.
Although people often experience great pain and grief after the loss of a loved one, some people “don’t want to bother others with their problems and tears.”
You may be surprised, but many, on the contrary, will be glad and even happy to help someone who needs it. Plus, once you're back on your feet and enjoying life again, you can give back and help someone else.
This simple truth can ease the pain of loss and also allow you to bring out your best qualities, such as kindness and mercy towards others.
There are many organizations and charities that really need your help.
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Important advice: if you have a loved one who has died, it is very important to share this grief with someone and not isolate yourself. Who is better to share the bitterness of loss with? Of course, first of all, we are talking about family and friends. Who else but your family members will help you cope with grief? These could also be close friends or acquaintances. For some, working and communicating with colleagues helps in this situation.
Well, if you don’t have a loved one nearby with whom you can share your grief, you can turn to a psychologist. This is exactly the case when you can and should turn to him for help.
I would like to hope that by mastering these 8 points, a person who has lost a loved one will feel calmer.
It is very difficult for us to accept the death of loved ones, however, we can soften the pain of loss by changing our attitude towards death. You should not perceive it only as a physical process, but try to treat it as a spiritual transition of our soul to eternal life.
Be careful and patient with yourself when you grieve and feel sad about a relative who has passed away. Try to maintain a broader perspective of understanding and perceiving life and death as described above. This will ease your grief and make life brighter and cleaner.
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When someone close to us dies, the living want to know whether the dead can hear or see us after physical death, whether it is possible to contact them and get answers to questions. There are many real stories, confirming this hypothesis. They talk about intervention other world into our lives. Different religions also do not deny that souls of the dead are close to loved ones.
What does a person see when he dies?
What a person sees and feels when the physical body dies can only be judged by the stories of those who have experienced clinical death. The stories of many patients whom doctors were able to save have much in common. They all talk about similar sensations:
- A man watches other people bending over his body from the side.
- At first one feels strong anxiety, as if the soul does not want to leave the body and say goodbye to the usual earthly life, but then calm comes.
- Pain and fear disappear, the state of consciousness changes.
- The person doesn't want to go back.
- After passing through a long tunnel, a creature appears in a circle of light and calls for you.
Scientists believe that these impressions do not relate to what the person who has passed on to another world feels. They explain such visions as a hormonal surge, the effects of medications, and brain hypoxia. Although different religions, describing the process of separation of the soul from the body, talk about the same phenomena - observing what is happening, the appearance of an angel, saying goodbye to loved ones.
Is it true that dead people can see us?
To answer whether deceased relatives and other people see us, we need to study different theories about the afterlife. Christianity talks about two opposite places where the soul can go after death - heaven and hell. Depending on how a person lived, how righteously, he is rewarded with eternal bliss or doomed to endless suffering for his sins.
When discussing whether the dead see us after death, we should turn to the Bible, which says that souls resting in paradise remember their lives, can observe earthly events, but do not experience passions. People who were recognized as saints after death appear to sinners, trying to guide them on the true path. According to esoteric theories, the spirit of the deceased has a close connection with loved ones only when he has unfulfilled tasks.
Does the soul of a deceased person see his loved ones?
After death, the life of the body ends, but the soul continues to live. Before going to heaven, she stays with her loved ones for another 40 days, trying to console them and ease the pain of loss. Therefore, in many religions it is customary to schedule a wake at this time in order to spend the soul in world of the dead. It is believed that ancestors see and hear us even many years after death. Priests advise not to speculate about whether the dead see us after death, but to try to grieve less about the loss, because the suffering of relatives is difficult for the deceased.
Can the soul of the deceased come to visit?
When the connection between loved ones was strong during life, this relationship is difficult to interrupt. Relatives can feel the presence of the deceased and even see his silhouette. This phenomenon is called a phantom or ghost. Another theory says that the spirit comes to visit for communication only in a dream, when our body is asleep and our soul is awake. During this period, you can ask for help from deceased relatives.
Can a deceased person become a guardian angel?
After the loss of a loved one, the pain of loss can be very great. I would like to know if our deceased relatives can hear us and tell us about their troubles and sorrows. Religious teaching does not deny that deceased people become guardian angels for their kind. However, in order to receive such an appointment, a person must be a deeply religious believer during his lifetime, not sin and follow God's commandments. Often the guardian angels of a family become children who left early, or people who devoted themselves to worship.
Is there a connection with the dead?
According to people with psychic abilities, the connection between the real and the afterlife exists, and is very strong, so it is possible to perform such an action as talk to the deceased. To contact the deceased from the other world, some psychics conduct spiritualistic séances, where you can communicate with a deceased relative and ask him questions.
After a loved one passes away, our consciousness does not want to accept the fact that he is no longer around. I would like to believe that somewhere far away in heaven he remembers us and can send a message.
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The connection between the soul and a living person
Followers of religious and esoteric teachings consider it as a small particle of Divine consciousness. On Earth, the soul manifests itself through the best qualities of a person: kindness, honesty, nobility, generosity, the ability to forgive. Creative abilities are considered a gift from God, which means they are also realized through the soul.
She is immortal, but the human body has a limited lifespan. Therefore, the soul leaves the body and goes to another level of the universe.
Basic theories about afterlife
Myths and religious views peoples offer their vision of what happens to a person after death. For example, the “Tibetan Book of the Dead” describes step by step all the stages through which the soul passes from the moment of dying to the next incarnation on Earth.
Heaven and Hell, Heavenly Court
In Judaism, Christianity and Islam, a Heavenly court in which one's earthly deeds are judged. Depending on the number of mistakes and good deeds, God, angels or apostles divide dead people into sinners and righteous people in order to send them either to Heaven for eternal bliss or to hell for eternal torment.
However, the ancient Greeks had something similar, where all the dead were sent to underground kingdom Hades in the custody of Cerberus. Souls were also distributed according to their level of righteousness. Pious people were placed in Elysium, and vicious people were placed in Tartarus.
The judgment of souls is present in different variations in ancient myths. In particular, the Egyptians had a deity Anubis, who weighed the heart of the deceased with the help of ostrich feather to measure the severity of his sins. Pure souls headed to heavenly fields solar god Ra, where the rest were not allowed to go.
The souls of the righteous go to heaven
Evolution of the soul, Karma, Reincarnation
Religions ancient india look at the fate of the soul differently. According to traditions, she comes to Earth more than once and each time she gains invaluable experience necessary for spiritual evolution.
The souls of loved ones who passed away earlier appear nearby. They look like living substances emitting light, but the traveler knows exactly who he has met. These essences help to move on to the next stage, where the Angel awaits - a guide to the higher spheres.
The path the soul follows is illuminated by Light
People find it difficult to describe the image of the Divine being on the path of the soul in words. This is the embodiment of Love and a sincere desire to help. According to one version, this is a Guardian Angel. According to another, he is the progenitor of all human souls. The guide communicates with the newcomer using telepathy, without words, in the ancient language of images. He demonstrates the events and misdeeds of his past life, but without the slightest hint of condemnation.
The road passes through space filled with Light. Those who have experienced clinical death talk about the feeling of an invisible barrier, which probably serves as the border between the world of the living and the kingdom of the dead. None of those who returned comprehended beyond the veil. What lies beyond the line is not given to the living to know.
Can the soul of the deceased come to visit?
The religion condemns the practice of spiritualism. This is considered a sin, since a tempting demon may appear under the guise of a deceased relative. Serious esotericists also do not approve of such sessions, since at this moment a portal opens through which dark entities can penetrate into our world.
The Church condemns seances for communicating with the dead
However, such visits can occur on the initiative of those who left Earth. If there was a strong connection between people in earthly life, then death will not break it. For at least 40 days, the soul of the deceased can visit relatives and friends and observe them from the side. People with high sensitivity sense this presence.
Russian biologist Vasily Lepeshkin
In the 1930s, a Russian biochemist discovered energy emissions emanating from a dying body. The bursts were recorded on ultra-sensitive photographic film. Based on observations, the scientist came to the conclusion that a special substance is separated from the dying body, which in religions is usually called the soul.
Professor Konstantin Korotkov
Doctor of Technical Sciences has developed a method of gas discharge visualization (GDV), which makes it possible to record fine-material radiation from the human body and obtain an image of the aura in real time.
Using the GDV method, the professor recorded energy processes at the moment of death. In fact, Korotkov’s experiments gave a picture of how a subtle component emerges from a dying person. The scientist believes that then consciousness, together with the subtle body, goes to another dimension.
Physicists Michael Scott from Edinburgh and Fred Alan Wolf from California
Adherents of the theory of many parallel Universes. Some of their options coincide with reality, others radically differ from it.
Any living being (more precisely, its spiritual center) never dies. It is simultaneously embodied in different versions reality, and each individual part is unaware of doubles from parallel worlds.
Professor Robert Lantz
He drew an analogy between the continuous existence of humans and the life cycles of plants, which die in the winter, but begin to grow again in the spring. Thus, Lanz's views are close to eastern teaching about personality transformations.
The professor admits the existence of parallel worlds in which the same soul lives at the same time.
Anesthesiologist Stuart Hameroff
Due to the specifics of my work, I observed people on the verge of life and death. Now he is sure that the soul has a quantum nature. Stewart believes that it is not formed by neurons, but by the unique substance of the Universe. After the death of the physical body, spiritual information about the personality is transmitted into space and lives there as free consciousness.
Conclusion
As you can see, neither religion nor modern science don't deny . Scientists, by the way, even named its exact weight - 21 grams. Having left this world, the soul continues to live in another dimension.
However, while remaining on Earth, we cannot voluntarily make contact with departed relatives. We can only keep good memories of them and believe that they also remember us.
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Can deceased ancestors help??
This is the story Anastasia Semenova, whom you know from her magnificent books, told me.
“...Several years ago I interviewed for a newspaper the mother of a farmer from Eastern Kazakhstan, a simple, very elderly woman, far from any mysticism. And I heard an absolutely amazing story.
The case took place in post-war Kazakhstan. Then still a young girl, Aliya survived a difficult ordeal: she was raped by two SMERSH fighters. And worse than that: it turned out that Aliya became pregnant. At that time, abortion was punishable by camps; the attitude towards an illegitimate child, even one conceived by a tragic accident, in Muslim regions was unequivocal: from now on the family was covered with indelible shame. Her fiancé left without saying a word. My sister didn’t want to let me into the house.
Aliya decided to commit suicide. In despair, she went to the cemetery and, sobbing, sat down on the grave of her grandmother, who died when the girl was not even six years old. Grandmother was the only relative she could still turn to without the risk of being rejected. And the unexpected happened: obeying some unconscious impulse, the girl threw aside the bottle of poison used to poison the rats, came home and calmly fell asleep. In a dream, her grandmother appeared to her and told her what to do: go to the chairman of the collective farm, who was Russian by nationality and therefore more tolerant of such conflicts, get a passport and go to the city, enroll in the workers' faculty of the Agricultural Institute. In the city, morals are different; discussing someone else’s life is not very common, and besides, you can introduce yourself as a widow, which is not uncommon in wartime.
The dream was so clear that in the morning Aliya knew by heart not only what she would say to the chairman, but also his answers. The boss, who lost two sons in the war, took pity on the desperate girl. And then everything turned out as her grandmother suggested: Aliya met a young man who adopted her child, they were able to raise him as a caring son, who even today helps in any way he can.”
What happened? Why did the lives of both mother and child turn out so well - although any psychologist will tell you that the life of a child conceived as a result of rape is almost never prosperous, and only abortion is offered as a solution?
If this episode were the only one, everything could be attributed to chance. But, having heard this story, I began to look for similar stories in magazines and newspapers, and collected a huge number of them (the reputable American magazine “Fate” even publishes regular collections of stories about advice and warnings that deceased relatives send people). After all, all blood relatives are united by a single information field, the name of which is the karma of the family.
Therefore, deceased relatives can help in the most hopeless situation - if the misfortune that befell you is retribution for generational sins.
Each clan carries a supply of good and bad karma. And the task of the current generation is to realize and work out the mistakes of their ancestors and to bring into the karma of future generations as many selected fruits of fate as possible. In this way, a person’s karma interacts with the karma of the family. If necessary, if we find ourselves in a critical situation, we can borrow part of the good karma from the family’s piggy bank in order to multiply it and pass it on to our children. Therefore, in a particularly difficult time for you, do not be afraid to perform a ritual to call the spirits of the dead.
Choose from among the relatives who have passed on to another world the one who is closer to you, or the one who is remembered as a good, kind and knowledgeable person by personal communication, by appearance, by stories.
Counting the day of the first quarter of the Moon as the first, count the fifth day of the first lunar quarter. From this day on, you need to exclude meat, fish, eggs and dairy products from your food. And starting from this day, for nine days, at any time of the day, after turning off the lights and closing the curtains, light incense on a church candle in memory of a departed relative. Next to the candle you need to put a photograph of the deceased or put any of his personal belongings.
After waiting until the room smells of incense, read the “Our Father” prayer:
Our Father, who art in heaven. Hallowed be it your name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, as it is in heaven and on earth. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.
After the third, fifth or seventh day of invocation, some unusual phenomena may begin.
Perhaps you will feel someone's presence, see a flickering shadow, hear unusual sounds.
Various strange things may begin to happen in the house: some thing will suddenly disappear from the place where it was lying and turn up in a completely inappropriate place, or puddles of water will appear from nowhere... All this is not at all dangerous, because the spirit of a deceased relative cannot cause you harm.
Take a clean notebook without any extraneous notes, draw three crosses on the front side (vertical - 5 cm, horizontal - 3 cm, intersection at 3 cm from the bottom of the vertical, line thickness - 2.5-3 mm). In this notebook every day, carefully write down everything unusual that happens during the day, the content of your dreams and those unexpected, seemingly not your thoughts, that come to mind.
It is possible that already at the preparation stage the spirit will give you valuable advice.
During these nine days, prepare to be summoned.
Wash a long (10 cm below the knee or longer) black dress without a pattern.
If you don't have a dress, a long skirt (but not trousers!) and a blouse or sweater will do. Even better would be a black Chinese silk robe with colorful dragon embroidery. It may be short, but not too short.
You need to dry your clothes so that, if possible, direct sunlight does not fall on them. After sunset, the dried clothes should be taken outside (or to the balcony) and, turning your face to the west, shake, quietly reciting the spell:
The Spirit of God hovered over the waters and breathed the breath of life into the man’s face. Let Michael be my leader and Sabtabiel my slave in light and light. Let the word become my appearance, and I will command the spirits of this air and bridle the horses of the sun: with the desire of my heart and the meditation of my mind, and with the power of the glance of my right eye. So, I conjure you, creature of the air,
The Pentagrammaton and the name I-E-V-E, in which pure desire and strong faith are concentrated. Amen.
Iron your clothes the next morning. Then prepare three large enough church candles(they will have to burn for an hour), some holy water and an oval mirror at least 15 cm in size. A spell must also be cast over these objects (after sunset). Take any knife in your hands, holding it with the tip up, light a candle (but not one of the three stored) and say loudly enough, with an expression, a firm and slightly chesty voice, so that vibration is felt in the area of the collarbones:
Head of the dead, let the Lord command you through the living and consecrated Serpent! Cherub, let the Lord order you through Adam-Iothav! Wandering eagle, may the Lord command you with the sides of a bull! Serpent, let the Lord command you through the Messenger and the Lion! Mi hael, Gabriel, Rafael, Anael! Dead-eyed angel, obey or disappear with the holy water. Winged calf, work or go back to earth if you don't want me to stab you with this knife. (With the knife, make a small lunge upward and turn it over with the tip down.) Eagle chained, obey this sign or move away from this breath. (Blow on the hand that holds the knife.) Moving serpent, crawl at my feet or be tormented by the sacred fire. Water, return to water! Fire, burn! Air, stay in motion! May the earth fall upon the earth with the power of the pentagram, which is the morning star! Amen!
And sprinkle all conjured objects with holy water.
You will also need two white saucers without a pattern (the gold border can be removed with fine sandpaper); ceramic mugs for you, for the spirit and for your assistants, if any; loaf of rye bread; a small (50 g) piece of boiled meat; a bottle of dry white wine. You must first try the wine and make sure that it is natural. It is better to buy bread directly on the day of the ritual.
The invocation itself can be carried out for a week after you have completed the nine days of preparation, and you must fast during this entire time. It is very advisable to carry out the ritual in the company of one or two friends who will be your assistants (maybe not at your home), but if there are no volunteers, you can act alone.
Remember - during the ritual and thirty minutes after it, the assistants must be in the room where the invocation is taking place and remain completely silent. Then you can exchange impressions.
Conduct the invocation after sunset. Dress so that nothing restricts you. For underwear, leave only black panties. Take off your shoes, take off your tights, stay in just a black dress. If you have long hair, comb it and tie it with a black ribbon. The assistants can be dressed as they please, but not in white.
On a table covered with a clean white tablecloth, place three candles close together in a triangle on a candlestick or wooden stand, with the point of the triangle facing you. Place a mirror vertically behind the candles. Behind the mirror is a white saucer with meat and a slice of rye bread.
This food is for the spirit. Place a mug here and pour a little wine into it. To the right of the mirror, place another mug half filled with wine. On the left is another white saucer with a quarter of bread. Assistants, if they are present, should also take their mugs of wine and bread, place all this next to them and look in the mirror; photographs or things of the called relative over which you read the “Our Father” should not be in the room. Give the notebook in which you wrote down your impressions to one of the assistants or place it about three meters from the table. Place a pencil in your notebook.
Turn off the lights and light the candles. While remaining quiet, use the candle closest to you and use a spoon to burn incense until the scent becomes very distinct. Then look in the mirror and quietly, but solemnly and expressively, in a low chest voice, pronounce the spell:
O Hecate! Goddess of heaven, goddess of earth and Proserpina of hell. O mother of shadows! Supreme Queen of the Army of the Dead, do not send your legions against me. O Hecate! Order them to serve me. O triple Hecate! Great Goddess evocations, look: in the fire dedicated to you, incense burns in your honor! O Hecate! May your divinity and your power descend upon me; my Father, do not be angry at this. Amen.
Pause and look carefully in the mirror to see if a shadow flashes behind your back.
This is a sign that the spell is starting to work. Then continue.
In the name of Hecate! O genius, ruler of the winds. In the name of Hecate! Souls of the suffering dead! In the name of Hecate! O souls worried in the nearby worlds, be my helpers, my strength, my army.
Then take a notebook and, opening it from the back, write in pencil:
I wish that the servant of God (the name of your spouse) would break up with (the name of his mistress), for she is dishonest, and return to me. (If you do not know the name of your mistress, simply write “with my rival”). Spirit (the name of a relative in the genitive case, for example “the spirit of Ivan”), by the power of Hecate you have the power to fulfill my desire.
Then burn the incense again and say the spell:
In the name of Hecate, in the silence of the night, I called upon the air legions, the magnificent army of the Obs. To some I offered food that was pleasant to them (touch the saucers and mugs that stand behind the mirror with your hands), to others the bread that they crave. Six of your years, while the mighty stars shine, and the forces I have called upon act like a ruler in a black robe, your servant, O Hecate, will go to bed with confidence!
Then you need to look in the mirror for another thirty minutes or so.
After this, everyone must drink wine and eat their share of bread. The share of the spirit (wine, bread and meat that stands behind the mirror) will need to be wrapped in a piece of black cloth (soak the bread in wine) and buried or drowned in any body of water (in extreme cases, buried in the snow).
The six years of Hecate that are mentioned in this ritual are six periods of 28 days during which the spirit will assist you. If desired, this period can be changed. If you notice that the ritual is weak, it can be repeated every month, on the full moon. At the same time, there is no need to observe nine days of preparation; three days of fasting are sufficient before the ritual.