Divination on playing cards- a fairly popular way to find out your future. And for this, in addition to the presence of the deck itself, you also need to know their meaning ...

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Fortune telling on playing cards is a fairly popular way to find out your future. And for this, in addition to the presence of the deck itself, you also need to know their meaning. Playing cards consist of 4 suits (spades, clubs, hearts and diamonds) and each of them has 9 cards (6-10, jack, queen, king, ace). When fortune telling, not only the cards themselves are taken into account, but also their combinations. In addition, in different layouts, interpretations can be very different. There are several varieties of them, and with them we will begin our acquaintance with a playing deck of cards.

General spreads

As a rule, this method of divination determines the fate of a person, his past, present and future. Such layouts do not require special questions. A card is placed in the center, which means the identity of the questioner. To her left are three cards - this is the past, on top - the present, on the right - the near future, and below - the inner experiences of the querent. The first thing to do is to see which suit prevails in the layout. She will set the general mood for interpretation. In order to better understand the meaning of playing cards, consider each suit separately.

Peaks

This is the heaviest and most complex suit in the deck. Its predominance in the alignment suggests that a person will face difficulties and trials. The element of this suit is Air, which means that it personifies rational thinking, confrontation, and the desire for leadership. In Tarot divination, it corresponds to Swords. In playing cards, the meaning of this suit is as follows:

• 6 - solving unpleasant problems, possibly a late road, tears.
• 7 - quarrels and conflicts.
• 8 - illness, depression, but can mean drinking and guests.
• 9 - emotional experiences, sadness, longing.
• 10 - deceived hopes, illusions.
• Jack - a scam or a trick, most likely from a man or a guy.
• The lady is one of the most negative cards in the deck, it can mean enemies, a rival, envious people.
• The king is an official, maybe a boss or a person who is higher in status than you.
• Ace is one of the few cards that has a lot of meanings. If the tip of the peak is directed upwards - trouble, bad news, and if downwards - celebration and fun.

Clubs (Cross)

The meaning of playing cards is difficult to explain without this suit. Her element is Fire, and in the Tarot she corresponds to Wands. Crosses symbolize fame, deeds, career, relationships with people. As a personality characteristic, the suit may indicate that a person is a careerist. The predominance of clubs in the layout may indicate that a person cares business area. In addition, in some combinations, the suit can also mean feelings, emotions, and the financial sphere. When fortune telling on playing cards (36 pcs.), The following matters:

• 6 - business trip, long road, unexpected guests.
• 7 - meetings, conversations, conversations, empty chores.
• 8 - a fateful meeting, possibly related to career growth.
• 9 - purchase of real estate, inheritance, changes (which ones will depend on neighboring cards).
• 10 - receiving a large financial sum, possibly a salary, remuneration for work.
• Jack - not too good news, brunette guy.
• The lady is a relative, a middle-aged woman, possibly wealthy.
• The king is a man, brunette or brown-haired, a true friend.
• Ace - house, money troubles, with hearts - tender love.

Diamonds

Since the element of this suit is the Earth, it is responsible for the financial condition of a person and symbolizes the sphere of sensual pleasures. In the Tarot deck, diamonds correspond to Denarii. If this suit prevails in the general layout, then the querent's near future is connected with the financial sector. When divining on playing cards (36 pcs.), The meaning of a tambourine is as follows:

• 6 - positive changes, a pleasant road.
• 7 - financial assistance from a loved one.
• 8 - minor problems, possibly money.
• 9 - meeting a person who will have a significant impact on your life.
• 10 is the best card that can fall in the layout. Means good luck and luck.
• Jack - financial fraud, losses and damages.
• The lady is a frivolous girl, grumpy and envious.
• The king is a fair-haired man, an influential person.
• Ace - important news, letter, message.

Worms

This suit is the most positive. It symbolizes feelings, love, emotions. Her element is Water, and in Tarot cards it corresponds to the suit of Cups. Falling out in a scenario, she says that a person is most concerned about love and relationships. As a characteristic of a person, a suit can mean a subtle, sensual nature. Consider the card data, the meaning and interpretation of playing cards in the general scenario:

• 6 - a pleasant road, a date, an unforgettable meeting.
• 7 - you will receive an unexpected invitation.
• 8 - declaration of love, joy, fun.
• 9 - a conversation with a loved one. It will depend on the cards next to it how it ends. If a spade or club is a quarrel, and if diamonds or hearts, you will find a compromise solution.
• 10 - plans, dreams for the near future.
• Jack - a stranger who is not indifferent to you.
• Lady - a fair-haired woman, usually a friend of the querent.
• The king is a married, fair-haired man.
• Ace - home, love, next to curly cards can mean this person's strong feelings for you. If, on the contrary, the card is next to yours, then this is your love for someone.

Most popular spreads

There are a huge number of different ways to find out your fate and answers to a variety of questions. Of course, for each situation, a separate alignment is chosen. The values ​​​​for fortune-telling on playing cards will largely depend on exactly what the querent is asking about. So, the following types of layouts are distinguished:

• are common,
• for love,
• to fate
• for a period of time
• to desire.

The last type is the simplest and most common. With the help of such layouts, you can quickly get an answer to your question. For example, consider the divination "Yes or no." There are two types of his layout: with three and with five cards. The second method gives a more detailed answer - what is against and what needs to be changed. The value and combination of 36 playing cards in this scenario will have a slightly different meaning. So, 5 cards are drawn sequentially from the deck.

1, 2 and 3 - answer the question: "Yes or no?" In this case, only the suit of the dropped cards is taken into account:

• heart suit - yes,
• cross - extremely unlikely,
• peak - no
• diamond - there are some obstacles.

So, for example, in the image above we see 2 crosses and one heart. This means that the wish will come true, but with a very low probability.

4 - indicates what is against, 5 - what needs to be changed.

The fourth and fifth cards must be interpreted, as in general layouts. So, the king of the cross - most likely, your friend will interfere with you. And the last card - 8 spades - means that the arrival of guests will help change the situation.

Meaning in the layout of love

As already mentioned, the interpretation of cards for different fortune-telling may differ. The most popular layouts for love include:

• "Your love".
• Partner Attitude.
• "On love and relationships."
• "What is your loved one thinking?"
• "He and she".
• "For loyalty."
• "Mirror".
• "New Relationships".
• "Attitude to the Querent".
• "Your relationship".
• "Eyes to eyes".
• "4 Aces 4 Tens".
• "What a man."
• "You and me."
• "What's in the heart."

For each of them, the meaning and combination of playing cards during divination practically does not change. Except that in the "Eye to Eye" layout, more full interpretation. Each of the cards answers one very important question:

• Why your partner likes you.
• Secret thoughts and motives at your expense.
• What kind of reaction does your partner expect from you?
• What does the partner expect?
• What happens if you reciprocate.
• What should you do.

For example, the first question comes up with a card of nine hearts. Of course, its main and main meaning is love and sympathy. Such a card means that the partner sees the perfect couple in you. His heart is filled with love and tenderness for you. He likes you for your openness, honesty and ability to surprise.

The value of combinations of 36 playing cards when divining for love does not change for hearts and cross suits. But for diamonds and peaks, there are some changes:

• 8 tambourines - an unsuccessful date, a quarrel with a loved one.
• The jack of diamonds is a lover, a pleasant guest.
• A lady of diamonds can mean treason or a lover, especially if she stands near a partner's card.
• 6 peak - separation, quarrel.
• 7 peak - tears, sadness.
• 8 peak - your feelings fade, cool down.
• Ace of spades can mean a love spell, betrayal, breakup.

Value in the hands of fate

This type of divination is extremely rare. This is due to the fact that it does not make sense to carry out fate spreads very often, because significant changes in a person’s life take a lot of time. They are recommended to be done once a month. Consider fortune-telling on playing cards, meanings and layouts for fate:

• "Rings".
• "Present and Future".
• "Horseshoe".
• "Witch Solitaire".
• " Butterfly".
• "Card Oracle"
• "Four Fortunes".
• " Palm".
• "Divination by Brown".
• "Pending event".
• "Next step".
• "The Bucket of Destiny".
• "Characteristics of personality".
• "All about me".
• "As in spirit."
• "Flower".
• "Patter".
• "To fate."
• "Problems and Destiny".
• "What is happiness?"
• "Grandma's arrangement".
• "Card Solitaire".
• "Predictive Cross".
• "Human Analysis".
• " Seal".
• "Fate is fate."
• "Watch".

As a rule, fortune-telling includes a large amount of cards and thus complicates their interpretation. In general, the values ​​used are the same as in general layouts. Some combinations are exceptions:

• 4 aces and 4 tens in one hand is a lucky sign.
• 4 ladies - you are surrounded by gossips and enemies.
• 10 and 9 tambourines - receiving a large amount of money.
• The Queen of Spades and 9 of Hearts is an unexpected event.
• 8 and 7 tambourine symbolizes impermanence.
• Ace and 9 of clubs - strong love.
• 10 hearts and 7 clubs promise pregnancy for women, and for men - tears, sadness.
• King of hearts and 6 of spades - financial difficulties, losses, losses.

In order to better understand the meaning of fortune-telling on playing cards in fortune-telling, consider an example.

In fortune-telling "Flower" cards are laid out in such a way as indicated in the image.

• 1 - denotes the essence of the situation itself - the root of the problem.
• 2-3 are obstacles that the querent will have to overcome.
• 4 - subtotal, course of events.
• 5,6 and 7 - the outcome of the situation.

The meaning and combination of playing cards in fortune-telling "Flower" will be as follows. The root of the problem is that the querent is most likely depressed (8 of spades). This happened due to a blow from a loved one (ace of spades and 10 of diamonds). A stranger who is not indifferent to you (jack of hearts) can help in this situation. Most likely, the situation will end with the fact that this secret lover will cheer you up, cheer you up and, perhaps, open his feelings (8 tambourines, 7 and 8 hearts).

Value in the layouts for the period

This is another very important type of divination, which is used to find out what awaits a person in a certain period of time. Layouts are made only for the future. The most popular are:

• "For a day."
• "For tomorrow".
• "For a week."
• "For a month".
• "For a year."

The methods of layouts and the meanings of 36 playing cards in this case practically do not differ from the general layouts. In this case, you should pay attention to the location of the map. Consider an example.

In this divination, the first card shows the thoughts that will bother the querent today. 6 hearts will mean that you will think about some kind of trip.

The second card shows the feelings and emotions that overwhelm the heart on this day. The queen of clubs indicates what the querent thinks of a woman. She probably has something to do with the upcoming trip.

The third card shows the events that will happen to the fortuneteller on this day. 8 Clubs denotes a fateful and very important meeting. But given that the next card is 7 spades, most likely, such a meeting will bring tears, disappointments, and possibly a quarrel. Although, in fact, the fourth card denotes desires, dreams and hopes in the layout, but in this case it should be considered together with the previous one.

The fifth point is far-reaching plans. In this case, the king of diamonds indicates that a fair-haired man, possibly an official, will have a significant influence on the situation. For girls, such a card can symbolize a lover.

The last item shows the outcome of the event or what should be avoided. In this case, 6 spades is a fairly negative card. Like the first, it also reflects the road or journey, but at the same time, the alignment indicates that the trip will not be as good as we would like. Perhaps it will happen at night. In addition, the peak cards that fall out at the end of fortune-telling indicate that it is best to abandon your plan. The meaning of playing cards for the future is quite simple to interpret. In this case, you should follow some rules:

• If there are a lot of curly cards in the layout, then important events await the querent.
• Some items can be combined. This applies to those cases where the cards do not carry a deep meaning (6,7,8).
• If you cannot understand the meaning of any item, you should ask what exactly you do not understand. After that, draw another card from the deck and place it side by side.

four cards

Earlier we mentioned that some cards should be interpreted in pairs. But besides this, there are some combinations that are always an exception. In some cases, it doesn’t even matter where they are located (nearby or separately). In various layouts, the value of playing card combinations is much more important than it might seem. This applies to those cases when all jacks, ladies, kings, aces fall out in one fortune-telling. It does not matter at all what positions the cards occupy, but if they fall out together, then:

• Jacks in the layout mean that a person is waiting for big and important things.
• Ladies are gossip about the querent.
• Kings denote unexpected chores, promotion in a career layout.
• Aces in the layout are good sign, a symbol of happiness and good luck, especially in combination with 10 Clubs.

Other combinations

The meanings of 36 playing cards largely depend on which ones are located next to them. In some cases they give good hints or advice. This is especially true in situations where there are several cards per point. Consider an example:

This layout is performed as follows:

The deck must be carefully shuffled and all 36 cards laid out. Next, you need to find "your" card according to the following principle:

• for fair-haired girls - Lady of Worms,
• for dark-haired - Lady of Clubs,
• for fair-haired men - the King of Hearts or the King of Diamonds,
• for dark-haired - King of Clubs.

The meanings of the playing cards "For Love" must be looked at side by side. In this case, around the queen of clubs, there are: king of diamonds, queen, 6 and 7 spades on top. If you do not take into account the combinations, then we can conclude that the querent has a young man, he comes to her, but he also has another girl (lady tambourine). 7 peak means that the couple may have quarrels and conflicts. But in this particular case, near the top card is the queen of spades and the ace of spades. And this is a very bad combination.

Spades: 7, ace and queen mean curse, damage, slander. So the cards tell the fortuneteller that, most likely, her rival is acting quite actively.

So, the meaning of playing cards in the layouts for love should be interpreted very carefully. The most famous combinations:

• Ace of clubs with 7 clubs - victory.
• Ace of tambourine with 9 of spades - a lie of loved ones.
• The ace of hearts and the ace of spades are bad news.
• King of clubs and 8 spades - treason.
• The king of hearts and 6 of hearts is a gift.

Divination rules

Of course, when interpreting the layouts, it is very important to take into account the meaning of the suits of playing cards and their combinations. But no less important is the observance of fortune-telling techniques. There are certain rules that will help you get reliable and accurate answers to your questions:

• you can not ask one question more than once;
• if the cards show impossible events, postpone fortune telling, now is not the best time;
• so that the cards do not lie, they should not be given to anyone, thrown, put in a conspicuous place;
• never guess in a bad mood, especially irritated and angry, cards love only positive emotions;
• if cards fall out during the shuffle, pick them up and be sure to look at their values;
• do not try to predict the result, while shuffling the cards, think only about the issue that worries you.

Of course, everyone can learn to guess on playing cards. In general, this is an easy task. In order to facilitate the ritual, get a special notebook. Write down all the values ​​​​and combinations of cards in it. Further, after each fortune-telling, you can record the results, compare with what happens in life, analyze. The most important thing is to remember that the cards are an assistant who can give advice and clarify the situation, but you need to act only relying on yourself and your strengths.

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Fortune telling: Three cards layout.

• After the question is formulated, the deck is shuffled and shifted.
• Three cards are drawn from the deck and placed on the table. They will answer the question.
• If the Questioner has new questions, the remaining cards are shuffled and shifted. Next, three new cards are laid out on the table.
• The Questioner has a third possibility. Getting a prediction - for this, he again shuffles and shifts the remaining cards, and then takes out the last three.
• Now there are nine cards on the table. They are mixed and shifted, and then laid out in the order in which they were after mixing.
• The interpretation of the nine cards will give the Questioner a method for resolving the situation that worries him.

Worms. Characteristics of the suit

The suit is considered lucky. Describes emotions, love, feeling, marriage, friendship, family. It also indicates all sorts of fulfilled hopes.

• Ace of Hearts - Very good news, family happiness and love. Reversed: Change, travel, happiness.
• King of Hearts - A noble, fair-haired man. Reversed: A person with a deceitful heart.
• Lady of Hearts - A benevolent fair-haired woman who inspires confidence. Reversed: A divorced woman, a widow, or a woman who is simply unlucky in love.
• Jack of Hearts - Lover or friend. Reversed: A lover who cannot be trusted.
• Ten of Hearts - Happiness and luck. Reversed: Great surprise, the beginning of something new.
• Nine of Hearts - Desire will come true. Reversed: Trouble on the road.
• Eight of Hearts - Travel, wedding, invitation. Reversed: Unwanted love.
• Seven of Hearts - Joy. Reversed: Boredom and fatigue.

Clubs. Characteristics of the suit

All cards of this suit are considered cards of success in the material and business spheres.

• Ace of clubs - Good fate, good news, necessary financial documents. Reversed: not exactly good news.
• King of clubs - A good dark-haired person who inspires confidence. Reversed: slight concern.
• Lady of Clubs - A dignified dark-haired woman who shows good feelings. Reversed: A woman not to be trusted.
• Jack of clubs - Lover with dark hair. Reversed: A lover not to be trusted.
• Ten of clubs - Luxury, prosperity, good luck. Reversed: problems.
• Nine of clubs - Unexpected finances. Reversed position: a small problem.
• Eight of clubs - A dark-haired person will bring joy and good luck. Reversed: Problems in love.
• Seven of clubs - Small problems with money. Reversed: Financial problems.

Diamonds. Characteristics of the suit

Cards of this suit indicate events that affect life outside the home. Also describe effort.

• Ace of diamonds - Money, jewelry. Reversed: Bad news.
• King of Tambourines - A domineering blond-haired man. Reversed: Deception, betrayal.
• Lady Tambourine - An unkind, envious blonde woman. Reversed: deceit.
• Jack of diamonds - Official, courier. Reversed: A person with whom it is difficult to get along.
• Ten tambourines - Important changes in life. Reversed: Dangerous changes that do not bring anything good.
• Nine tambourine - Unexpected news. Reversed: Problems between lovers.
• Eight tambourine - Love adventure. Reversed: parting.
• Seven of Tambourines - Gossip, criticism. Reversed: Backbiting, quarrels.

Peaks. Characteristics of the suit

Cards of this suit speak of danger, misfortune, loss, enemies, betrayal and failure.

• Ace of spades - Satisfying proposals. Reversed: Bad news, disappointment.
• King of Spades - A dark-haired man who cannot be trusted. Reversed: Enemy.
• Queen of Spades - An elderly woman with dark hair. Reversed: A very cunning and cunning woman.
• Jack of Spades - An ignorant young man. Reversed: Traitor.
• Ten of spades - Solitude, difficulties. Reversed: health problems.
• Nine of Spades - Failure, misfortune. Reversed: An unhappy friend.
• Eight peak - Disappointment, bad news. Reversed: Squabbles, quarrels.
• Seven of Spades - Change in plans. Reversed: An unfortunate approach to problems.

About playing cards

It's time to buy playing cards and you are faced with the question of which cards to choose? There are many manufacturers, prices differ by 2, 3 4 .... and up to 10 times for a deck of cards, but how to choose exactly the one you need? First of all, you need to understand how you will use it? Do you need playing cards for poker, cards for playing the fool, cards for preference, cards for tricks, for divination (TARO) or do you collect unusual playing cards and want to buy another deck for your collection?

Ordinary playing cards

These are playing cards that do not have additional properties and are intended for an unpretentious buyer. These include, any size or cards that manufacturers complete with poker sets. They are suitable for playing the fool, drunkard, playing solitaire and even poker. But when playing poker, the corners of playing cards are heavily stressed and can be easily damaged. Poker is primarily a game of interest, in which any little thing can become a clue for your opponent, not to mention a damaged playing card. If you are going to play poker in the evening and you have only one deck of ordinary playing cards, then it is likely that in the heat of excitement you will damage one of the cards and there will be nothing to replace it with.

Playing cards for tricks

Playing cards for tricks differ in the surface of the playing card. It should be with a special coating so that the cards lying on top of each other can easily slide. and are presented in the assortment of Bicycle, Bee,. Of course, you can play poker and fool with such cards and play solitaire, but for playing fool they are expensive, and for poker they do not have the necessary degree of wear resistance. Some of these decks are equipped with special cards that are used in certain tricks, have an inconspicuous trapezoidal shape, and may have special markings on the back of a playing card so that you can guess the suit and value of the card. They can be designed, when each playing card has its own individual design, such cards are more suitable for collections, but are also often used for tricks. Poker or other games, they are uncomfortable to play.

Playing cards for preference

Playing cards for poker

Good cards are of the utmost importance in any poker game. There are two main types of playing cards, plastic-coated (paper). These cards have two important differences, they are quality and durability. Plastic coated playing cards will not last as long as 100% plastic cards and this should be taken into account when buying playing cards. Such cards are used in US casinos, play a small number of hands and change to a new deck. For a casino, this is a small cost and at one table, per evening, 3-4 or more decks of playing cards can be used. For ordinary players, this is an expensive pleasure, so it is wiser to buy 100% plastic playing cards. But besides the material from which poker cards are made, there are other characteristics that will be discussed in this article.

Magnum- A giant designation of the suit and value of a playing card, used for the visually impaired. .

peek-index- This type of designation of the suit and value of a playing card is convenient for playing poker if you play at a table where there are many opponents next to you, in order to see which playing card you got during the deal and minimize the likelihood that your cards will be seen neighbour.

Playing card colors

We are all used to the fact that standard playing cards have red and black suits. In part, this is true, only the red color in playing cards may differ. Professional gambling establishments prefer to use a darker (calm) red color so that it does not irritate or strain the players. It happens that manufacturers use a bright red color, for those who play at home, there is not much difference.
For home games there were, these are decks where each suit has its own color. So worms are red, diamonds are blue, worms are green, spades are black. Such decks are also found in Regular index - playing cards are supplied in a double package and Peek index - playing cards in a double package.

Playing card backs

Each manufacturer of playing cards has its own branded shirt. Depending on partnership agreements, or the corporate logo of the casino for which these cards were issued. The manufacturer Modiano (Italy) offers lines with, but this is rather an exception, usually these are 2 or 4 colors of the back of the card. Also, the back of the playing card is distinguished by the presence of a white stripe along the edges or a solid pattern on the back of the playing card.

The surface of a plastic playing card

Pay attention to the surface of the playing card, it should be rough. High-quality playing cards have a rough surface, if you are offered to buy expensive (from 400-450 rubles per deck of cards) 100% plastic playing cards with a smooth card surface, it will most likely be a bad deck. Even if it has the logo of a well-known poker brand or the logo of a good manufacturer. Unfortunately, playing cards are also being counterfeited.

Playing card manufacturers

Playing cards are produced all over the world: China, India, USA, Brazil, Belgium, Italy, Spain... But really good manufacturers can be counted on the fingers. Chinese and Indian playing cards are cheap and not of exceptional quality. There are good and inexpensive 100% plastic playing cards from such manufacturers, but they are not yet ready to compete with the world's leading brands. These include USPCC (USA) produces a line of cards Bicycle, Tally Ho, Bee, Aviator and others. There is only one type of 100% playing plastic cards in the USPCC line () , mainly these cards are intended for magic tricks, quiet card games and collecting. Playing cards for professional casinos are produced by Copag (Brazil, Belgium), Modiano (Italy). These are the main producers. But their decks are different. If you take in standard decks of playing cards, they will differ in weight. The lightest ones will be Copag, they have a thinner plastic, which is convenient to mix and donate. Modiano cards have the hardest plastic among the listed manufacturers, they are less convenient for mixing, but when using a large table, you can easily deliver a playing card to the farthest player. Fournier cards are of medium hard plastic.

When playing poker, make sure that the plastic card does not have contact with the hard surface of the table. Mechanical impact from glass, plastic or wood will cause the design to quickly wear off the surface of the card or playing card back, and over time, the card will become "marked" and the deck will need to be replaced. If you have soiled a plastic playing card, you can safely wipe it with a damp cloth.

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By the way, card suits have many names: vinyl spades, cross clubs, diamonds, hearts
In English, the cards are called very logically: heart - hearts, diamonds - diamonds, cross - clubs, spades - spades
In Italy, Spain and Portugal, for example, instead of the usual suits, there were bowls, coins, swords (swords) and shelves for a very long time.
The cards came to Russia from Germany, through Poland. Therefore, the suits were called in Polish for a long time, so red (in Polish, red) went into the "worm". Vini - old peaks - were called so because they depicted a vine for a long time. Soon, the French trend came, and they called and drew suits differently: Pigue, Treffe


• It is believed that the four card suits originally symbolized the attributes of a knight - a spear (spades), a sword (clubs), a shield (hearts) and a coat of arms (diamonds). Later the names of the suits changed.
  Now card suit peaks are called:
  In France - spades.
  In Italy - peaks.
  In Spain (the name has not changed since antiquity) - swords.
  In Germany and England - shovels.
  In Russia (the names of the suits are borrowed mainly from German) - "Piki" (pike - a shovel) is also called "vini" (from the old German "grape leaves", which were depicted on their cards to "shovels").

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  Qualities of a woman

  So let's define a woman. The wife is the better half of the husband's body, as she should be responsible for half of her husband's duties. In other words, a wife is the embodiment of the best qualities of a husband. The femininity carries many treasures. If a man achieves something in life, then, first of all, he owes it to his wife. The presence of a godly woman brings her husband the following:

  Glory;
  good luck
  graceful speech;
  memory;
  prudence, reason;
  purposefulness;
  patience.

  Moreover, these qualities appear in the husband of a pious wife, even if he did not have them, and increase in the described sequence.

  The least a pious woman can give her husband is glory.
  Next comes more high level what she can give - good luck in difficult times.
  Graceful speech enables a person to achieve success in life.
  Memory is able to enable a person to remember his mistakes and, thus, correct them.
  Discretion and reason are an even higher asset, because reason controls the entire existence of a person and enables a person to progress and learn all the time.
  Purposefulness makes it possible to always achieve your goal.
  Patience is the highest asset, because patience means the presence of all other assets combined.

  Thus, a pious wife gives a man a lot. But if a woman is impious, she takes away all these qualities from her husband.

  First, she takes away his position in society, that is, fame.
  Then luck disappears as a result of the fact that she behaves unworthily.
  Then the man loses graceful speech.
  Then he loses his memory.
  Then he becomes less judicious than before.
  He loses focus.
  And eventually he loses his patience. As a result of the loss of patience, conflicts begin.

  The natural position of a woman

  A woman should occupy a subordinate position, because for her this position is most natural. But the leadership of a man does not at all mean exploitation or abuse, but first of all responsibility. Therefore, the woman puts herself in the position of a helper, with the aim of helping her husband in moving forward towards the achievement of his goal, and thus enabling the husband to take care of himself, manifesting his desire for leadership and responsibility ...

  Currently, the situation, unfortunately, is not changing in the right direction. Men become like women, and women sometimes act like men. The most amazing thing is that no one is happy with this. This happens both in society and in most families. But nature arranged it so that a woman attracts more with her beauty, defenselessness and humility. And if a woman begins to show non-feminine qualities of character in the family, then she becomes less attractive to her husband and to most men.

  In a woman, the subtle body of the mind is much more developed than in a man, and she has more subtle feelings. A man, on the other hand, tends to be less sensitive, often he has a more developed memory and mind. But nevertheless, in the external relationships in the family, feelings and the mind play an important role. Since we are in contact with this world through feelings and through the mind, in fact, if the wife does not appreciate the mind of her husband, does not consider that he occupies a sufficiently high position in the family, then as a result, the husband will lose the opportunity to show his mind in resolving issues related to family life and in the relationship of the family with the outside world. As a result, the family ceases to function properly.

  Thus, we see that whether we like it or not, a woman still manages our relationship with each other. The situation is in her hands. Management means for her - freedom of choice. Either she begins to obey her husband, and then the relationship becomes good, the children are brought up well and the family prospers, or she begins to lead over him and tries to humiliate him. This is where strife arises.

  The woman is the energy and the man is the unit to which the energy is applied. A woman radiates some kind of power, that is, she is energy, there is a power in her, which is called beauty, charm, inspiration, etc. A man is a unit of progress in this world. He makes progress, he works.

  Qualities of a True Wife

  That true wife who skillfully does all household chores

  The husband should skillfully perform all duties outside the home and should not strain his wife in these matters. The situation looks ridiculous and ugly for a man when he hopes for his wife in these matters. The duty of the husband is to provide for the family financially, properly organize the lives of loved ones, inspire them to fulfill their duties and duties, and so on. And the wife correctly organizes all internal affairs so that the husband does not worry about it. But this does not mean that the husband does not help at home, and the wife does not help her husband outside.

  That true wife who gives birth to good children

  It means that these things are natural qualities of a faithful wife. If a woman has bad qualities, she gives birth to bad children. The birth of good or bad children depends more on the fate of the woman. If she has all the good qualities of a woman, this is kindness, compassion, gentleness of character, a sensitive attitude towards others, the ability to be condescending, modesty, which, with the development of the mind, can develop into humility, a tendency to serve and accept the views of her husband, such a woman will undoubtedly have very good and gifted children. If she does not have such qualities, she is rude, cold, insensitive, all this leads to various changes in the female body, primarily to hormonal ones, and the woman will not be able to give birth, feed and raise a child normally. If a woman corrects her qualities of character, then her hormonal functions are quickly restored, which support her health and beauty. If hormonal functions fall, then she loses her beauty, health, and the ability to give birth to good children. And the secret of female success in life lies in the fact that all this will be good for a woman only if she does not stop working on her character. If she stops doing this, then all her piety can quickly disappear.

  That true wife who cherishes her husband

  The character of the husband naturally changes depending on the impact on him, or rather, the attitude of his wife towards him. Therefore, a woman should value his reputation more than herself, then the husband will value her more than himself. A man succumbs to the mood in the family that his wife dictates to him. It turns out that the first urge to a relationship comes from a woman, not from a man. If a woman gives good to a man and directs psychic energy to him, then the man can no longer resist this and he begins to like the woman.

  IN family relationships a woman must understand such a thing that at first a man loves a woman more than she loves him. But then, when a marriage is concluded, the feelings of a man become colder. He has such a nature, he experiences more happiness when he wants to achieve something.

  A woman's psyche works differently. At first, she does not love much, but then the woman becomes attached to him and loves the man much more if the relationship is built correctly.

  Why does a husband spend more time at work than at home? This means that the wife does not try hard to fulfill all her duties at home and in relations with her husband, which is more important for her, so the husband is not very drawn to home. If a wife tries hard to do everything for her husband in an ideal way, then even if work occupies the most important place in life for the husband, he will still be better off in the family than at work. Thus, a woman must understand this law, that everything in the family depends more on her. And if she cherishes her husband in any circumstances, then her husband will definitely cherish and love her. This means that for children, she will be the most any person, because love for mom comes from dad, and respect for dad comes from mom. How parents treat each other is how children treat their parents.

  That true wife who does not break her vow to her husband

  Of course, a woman is not inclined to keep her word. The natural feature of a real wife is never to tell what her husband told her, even if he does not want to. If a wife does not observe this natural quality of a woman, then she should not expect that her husband will not cheat on her. It is enough for a woman to cheat on her husband in her mind so that he starts doing it for real. If the wife does not keep her word, then the husband will not keep his promises. If a wife begins to think that someone has better husbands than hers, then the husband will begin to look for a better woman than her. A woman is the initiator of all relationships in the family, and she must understand well what follows from what. Thus, she will be able to control family life.

  A faithful wife is half of her husband

  A true wife is naturally attracted to what her husband does. That is her nature. Not in male character rejoice when he does what his wife wants. A woman should be happy with what her husband does. If this does not happen, then the wife is not fulfilling her duties. The duties of the husband are better understood by the wife, and the duties of the wife are better understood by the husband. And the indicator of the fulfillment of one's duties is the attitude of your spouse towards you. If, however, a husband or wife, having studied the duties of another, puts a notebook on the table and says: “Look how you should or should do,” then the result will only be a further deterioration in relations. The best thing to do is start doing your job. If the wife does not listen to her husband, it means that he treats his wife badly.

  A faithful wife is her husband's best friend

  There are several types of friendship. The best friend is the one who is close to our heart. In Sanskrit, such a friend is called suhrid. "Su" is a particle meaning strengthening, and the word "hridaya" means heart. That is, the one who is closest to the heart. Such a person is believed in the deepest experiences of his friend, that is, a friend never hides anything from him. There are friendships based on compassion or based on business relationships. If there is only business friendship in the family, this means that the wife does not understand anything about her duties. A woman must act in such a way that she becomes a close heart friend to her husband, otherwise there is no chance of having a strong family.

  How to make it so that you become a close heart friend for your husband? To do this, you need to open your heart to your husband every day. We have already said that the wife, by her behavior with her husband, determines what will be the relationship between all family members. A wife should talk about everything that excites her in life and should try to do it in such a way that her husband will be happy to listen to her. It is very natural for a real wife to open her heart to her husband. This is not typical for a man, so a woman opens the lock of her husband's heart with the key of her sincerity.

  A faithful wife brings peace, goodness and prosperity to the house

  Peace is maintained in the family when a woman does not look at other men or is very remorseful that she did.

  Prosperity in the home also depends on the woman. This is a very subtle and subtle moment in life that you need to know. If you want to have wealth and prosperity in the house, for this you need to make sure that the family does not live only for its own internal interests. It also depends on the woman, but not only. The very mindset of disinterestedness and not cycling on your desires will predispose people to you. There will be many friends, people will also want to help you. This mindset begins to develop from the table. If in a family, without tension, they are inclined to simply invite someone to dinner, feed someone, treat them, give alms to the poor, just right, this means that the family will prosper. If the family lives selfishly, then all kind people turn away from it, only selfish well-wishers remain who want something from you for themselves, and not bring you happiness. Thus, selflessness is the basis of family life for the prosperity of the family.

  Preserving kindness in the family is also the responsibility of the woman. A man is not capable of this. He often has to fight for the prosperity of the family or leave something at work. A man is more likely to be angry or tired. A woman, even if she works hard, does not attach much importance to external relations. For her, it is of great importance family life. Even if she occupies a leadership position, family life remains a much more important part of life for her than work. She will not worry much, in comparison with a man, if something is wrong with her at work. More tangible concerns will be brought to her by unrest in the family. Therefore, a woman should quickly respond to mental changes in her husband, and respond to his anger with condescension. It's easier for a woman not to get angry. As a last resort, she may cry for her own protection.

  A woman has two weapons that are invincible for a man. The first is pathetic words of reproach, when a woman shows herself completely submissive and defenseless, and reproaches her husband that he does not protect her. And the second is tears, which are the last weapon. But if a woman does not properly use these two weapons, then she undoubtedly loses the war because her husband begins to disrespect or hate her. If her words of reproach turn into words of underwear, then she will arouse an even greater enemy in her husband. And if the words of despair turn into words of hatred, then there is no chance to keep your husband around you.

  A faithful wife takes care of her husband until her last breath.

  A man, as soon as he marries, immediately gives care of himself to his wife. He stops thinking about his health, what he is wearing, stops thinking about what he should eat tomorrow. It comes naturally because it is not his responsibility. And if a wife arranges separate meals for her husband, then she will not feel happiness. Separate nutrition means that one week she feeds a man only rice, and the second only borscht. I prepared it for a week, you just need to say where it will lie. Since the husband will not feel satisfaction from this, the wife will not have happiness in life. Although, with some inconvenience in life, a man is not inclined to complain even to his wife. It is easier for him to endure than to think about it. But the amount of a woman's happiness is directly proportional to the satisfaction of a man in a good relationship. If a woman wants a man to take care of her, she must be the first to take care of him.

  The nature of a woman is such that she cannot live without protection. A man is by nature more independent in life. He seeks a woman only out of a desire to enjoy her. But if a man has found some great goal in life and finds complete satisfaction in achieving his goal, then it becomes indifferent to him whether he lives with someone or lives alone. A woman, on the other hand, receives satisfaction in life only by becoming attached to someone, and not from achieving some goal. Therefore, it is difficult for a woman to get satisfaction in life alone. It is so arranged by God that a woman, becoming attached to someone, receives happiness. So she gets happiness by becoming attached to her own children. If such qualities are not developed in a woman, if she is too independent and selfish, she thinks that she can be happy alone and she does not need anyone, then nature deprives her of the opportunity to have children, since her hormonal and physiological functions of the body are violated. And, having many fickle friends and acquaintances, a woman does not get real happiness, she accumulates dissatisfaction, which, in the end, can result in severe depressive states, nervous breakdowns and hysteria, etc. Therefore, the real, natural interests of a woman lie in the preservation of her family, especially relations with her husband. Because adult children, having matured, will not always be able to maintain close relationships with their parents, and a husband and wife can remain faithful and care for each other until the end of their lives, which is very favorable for a woman.

  Husbands who have good wives experience great happiness

  Family happiness is the responsibility of the wife. If she strongly desires family happiness, then the family will be happy. If she doesn't care, she won't be happy. The woman makes the atmosphere in the family. A man brings optimism, joy, enthusiasm. Happiness means no conflict. Therefore, the first duty of a woman is compliance. Any wife should know this arithmetic: if I yield to my husband, then I get what I wanted to receive, if I do not yield to him, then I lose everything. This is female math. Male math is just the opposite. If a man concedes, then he loses everything, if he does not concede, then he achieves his goal.

  Husbands with good wives know how to run a household

  The ability to manage household chores and housekeeping depends on wives, not on husbands. If the wife correctly put all the affairs in the house, then the husband automatically becomes the household one. The inspiration to maintain the life of the family should come from a woman, and if the wife makes efforts to maintain order in the house, then a man who does not know what a hammer is still becomes an economic one. It happens to him by itself. If the wife is not serious about family matters, then the man comes home, lies down on the sofa and starts watching his “one-eyed mentor”. He has potency, the urge to do something will not. The wife guides her husband's desires in the right direction. If the wife does everything without joy, without interest, then the husband will not have an interest in doing something at home. A woman needs to understand all these things well. And if a man does something wrong, then the wife should look for the reason for this in herself. Then the husband will think why he cannot help his wife.

  Husbands with Good Wives Enjoy God's Favor

  This aspect of a woman's family responsibilities is very deep, and we will not consider it in great detail. It turns out that it is much easier for a woman to turn to God than for a man. Just like it is easier for a man to fulfill his duties at work. The sense of duty in a man is much more developed than in a woman. But a woman's sense of religiosity is much more developed than a man's. An unbelieving woman means a very sinful woman. Unbelieving man means not so holy. But if a man does not fulfill his duties, even if he is a believer, this means that he is still sinful. If a woman cannot perform some external duties, this does not mean anything.

  What can a woman do to make God turn to her? It must always be turned towards God. But serving God by a woman should not be opposed to serving her husband. In our time, unfortunately, the culture of religious life has been lost, and, as a result of spiritual lack of culture, many people, trying to serve God, do it so illiterately, fanatically and ignorantly that they cause great concern to society. Delivering great concern to society with their behavior, such people discredit the purity and practical expediency of spiritual knowledge. This also happens in individual families. This is one of the reasons why people forget that only a religious way of life can restore the principles of purity and morality in society. Unfortunately, only religion brings moral strength to people. There are no other public institutions now and never have been in the history of mankind. We can see this in the history of the development of many cultures in the past. For example, the Roman Empire achieved great development, but because of the imbalance of the spiritual and material aspects of life, it inevitably collapsed. The same principle applies not only to large empires, but also to small families.

  So how can a wife harm her husband by starting to serve God? I have often witnessed that, having started spiritual practice, a husband, wife or even children begin to sharply oppose their new way of life, thinking and aspirations to the old way of life of the rest of the family, doing this instructively and sometimes extremely sharply and fanatically. If a woman does this, then with such "good" intentions she can destroy relationships in the family and ruin it. As we have said, the strength of a woman lies in humility and humility. If a woman, having begun to serve God, also improves her attitude towards her husband, then by doing so she attracts her husband to God. If she begins to teach her husband the "correct" life, then neither her husband nor God himself will be pleased with her behavior. Even if a husband is a staunch atheist and an opponent of religion, he can never dare to dissuade his wife from the spiritual life, if she correctly performs her duties. Because such a woman automatically gives a blessing to progress in life, and he himself will be punished for doing bad things and will be rewarded for doing good things. The husband of such a wife is accompanied by progress and success in everything, even in spiritual life.

  Husbands with good wives live a beautiful, happy and rich life.

  This man also receives from the woman. A man may have some sense of aesthetics, but a woman is naturally 6 times stronger. A man can live in an apartment for many years, but never notice what kind of wallpaper they have, but as a rule, the slightest trifle in the house does not escape a woman. That is their nature. Beauty in the apartment and in the clothes of a man more often depends on the woman, but for this it is not necessary to force the whole apartment or buy a three-piece suit. If a woman conscientiously follows these things, then beauty will be on her face.

  One who has a good wife is definitely trustworthy. It must be concluded that one who does not have a good wife may not always be trustworthy.

  This means that if a husband is distrusted, then you are a bad wife. Because the ability to have people's trust for a husband comes entirely from the wife. If the wife does not trust her husband, then none of the colleagues and friends will trust such a husband.

  When a woman feels danger towards her husband, she must be faithful to her husband not only in behavior, but also in words. Then the husband will be protected from dangers and troubles in difficult times. The most interesting thing is that when a husband has a difficult situation, the wife may have a desire to say something wrong to him, with whom to gossip about him or change. But if the wife conquers these desires in herself, then she conquers the troubles that can happen to her husband.

  Thus, a good and faithful wife is the best helper of her husband, it is she who shows him the right path in this world.

  Criteria for a True Wife

  In addition to the above general statements, there is a specific statement about the purity of a woman. What is a true wife? There are 5 criteria for a true wife:

  Purity. She is pure in her conduct and pure in appearance;
  Experience. She must be experienced in dealing with her husband;
  Chastity. She must be faithful to her husband;
  Pleasant husband. She is pleasing both in appearance and behavior to her husband;
  Truthfulness. She must be true.

  If a wife is truly devoted to her husband and tries to remain faithful to him, then she naturally, by virtue of her feminine nature, acts in this way and manifests these qualities.

  Purity

  So, let's look at the first quality. This is purity. The amazing thing is that it is this feminine feature that maintains stability in human society. It is very interesting to note that the psychology of a woman is this: if the first man she meets treats her with care, then she becomes his faithful wife. This thing maintains stability in human society.

  In other words, if a young girl remains celibate, that is, chaste, until the moment she enters marriage, then, undoubtedly, she is very attached to her husband, loves him, and thus evokes in him reciprocal, very good feelings.

  As a result, the family becomes stable, and this makes it possible to protect society from corruption. As a result of debauchery in society, ungodly offspring are born. The consciousness of the unborn child depends on the state of consciousness of a man and a woman at the moment of conception. This means that if a man and a woman were not in a very deep understanding that children would be born, if they were engaged in illegal relationships, if they were drunk, then ungodly offspring were born, which brings everyone nothing but anxiety. If children are conceived without love or become not very desirable for parents, then they develop inferior and cannot fully develop good qualities of character, because of which the parents themselves suffer later.

  It is very interesting to note that a woman who is prone to debauchery, that is, to relationships with a man who is not her husband, with great difficulty is able to preserve the original feminine quality in herself - the desire to see good in people. Women by nature are very often soft-hearted and see the best qualities in the people around them. Thus, a woman is able to understand any person, even a hardened criminal, but only if she herself has purity. This means that the heart of a woman who begins to walk, that is, to communicate with strange men secretly, becomes hard and dry. And she is no longer able to see good qualities in others, to help other people somehow - her heart becomes somewhat dry. The more she lives in this style, the drier her nature becomes.

  It is very important to note in this connection that such dryness depends on the dirt of the mind. A woman is so defiled by wrong contact with men. That is, she is defiled by the very idea of ​​deceit, by cunning, by playing a double game on her husband. A person becomes deceitful, succumbs to various rudeness. In families where wives behave in this way, scandals will undoubtedly arise and their life together will never be good and successful.

  I remind you that the same applies to men, but since we are analyzing the feminine qualities of character, we will only talk about women, although everything that is said here fully applies to men.

  Also, the word cleanliness refers to outward cleanliness. It is in this perspective that we are accustomed to understand this word.

  Indeed, a woman has a natural purity to a much greater extent than a man. A man needs to develop the quality of purity in himself, and a woman has it from birth. Even as a little girl, she puts everything in order. It is very important to her that everything is clean. She does not tolerate any dirt. Thus, with her desire for cleanliness, a woman maintains cleanliness in the house. A man does not have this desire. Sometimes it happens, but rarely enough. Also, a woman tends to take care of her loved ones, so that everything looks clean and tidy. Thus, purity is an essential quality of a woman, and without it, the family becomes unhappy. Imagine a family where a woman herself does not keep cleanliness, and also does not take care of her household in terms of cleanliness. As a result, such a family becomes an abode of dirt, where everyone looks very bad and ugly. Such a family will not be successful in society, because it causes disgust and hostility. It is the responsibility of a woman to keep cleanliness.

  Experience

  The second quality of a woman is experience. The wife must be experienced. Why? An experienced wife behaves in such a way that her husband does not create disturbance for society and does not try to seduce innocent girls. This is experience in every way.

  In this era, a woman never behaves humbly, so family life is full of unrest, and scandals break out at the slightest provocation. Either the husband or wife will use any excuse to file for divorce.

  Western people say that "obedient" mentality is not right for a wife. In fact, being obedient to her husband is a tactic by which a woman can win the heart of her husband, no matter how irritable and cruel he may be.

  So one has to understand this thing. The husband, being in a relationship with society, with the people around him, has as his goal the achievement of success in society, and the goal of the wife is a happy family. The husband is more busy with external activities, he is often carried away by some kind of work, etc. Such is the nature of a man. He gives the family his experience, gives the funds from his activities to the outside.

  But if a woman is engaged in external activities, and there is disorder in her family, in her house, then she will not feel happiness, because the main thing for her is the family. Therefore, a woman should be non-irritable in the family, and then she will have success in life.

  This is how the family should exist, this is how regulation should take place in it. This is the experience of a woman. Experience does not lie in the fact that at the moment when a man is irritated, she begins to reproach him for this. Experience lies in putting yourself in a subordinate position and comforting your husband like a child. Thus, a woman succeeds in her relationship with her husband if she is sufficiently devoted to him, if she is sensitive, and if she has a compliant approach. Devotion means that she does not want another husband. She sees that she can achieve happiness with this person.

  But if you are already married, and it seems to you not very successful, then it’s okay too. We have already said that if a wife begins to consider her husband worthy, then he has nowhere to go, gradually he becomes worthy. And if a man begins to become worthy of his own free will, then his wife automatically begins to respect him.

  Chastity

  The third quality of a woman is chastity. Chastity is a very important quality. This means that a woman should not cheat on her husband.

  Eight qualities of a woman that enable her to be chaste.

  The first quality is that a woman should not be greedy. Greed is the desire to own. Therefore, if a woman is very greedy for sexual pleasures, then naturally, at some point, her husband may not be satisfied with something, and she will begin to become attached to other men. At the beginning, look at them, soaking them with your feelings. Then more and more will want to cheat on her husband. Thus chastity will be destroyed. As a result, the happiness of the family will also be destroyed.

  A woman should be satisfied under any circumstances. We know that women, often without realizing it, demand more from their husbands than they are capable of. Suppose a wife demands more money from her husband or something else, does not want to be satisfied. As a result, conflicts begin, because the man is also dissatisfied. He tries to do the best, but his wife still remains dissatisfied. Since the wife is energy, when she is not happy, she begins to spread her power of discontent to everyone around her. For example, if a husband is dissatisfied, he can keep it to himself, and in principle, if he behaves quietly, the wife may not notice this. But if the wife behaves quietly, but at the same time is dissatisfied, then everyone around her will feel discontent within herself, and quarrels will arise, because the wife is energy, this is a force that affects everyone around her. Thus, if the wife is not satisfied under any circumstances, then in the family there is a great tendency to disputes, to conflicts.

  The second quality is that a chaste woman skillfully conducts her household chores. It is very important to understand that when a woman is clean, she naturally develops a taste for doing household chores. When she is unclean, that is, not chaste, she walks somewhere, then household chores do not interest her, and she does not conduct them very skillfully. Because the skill of a woman depends purely on the desire to do something pleasant for her husband, to seem like a good person to him.

  The third quality - a woman should be familiar with the laws of life. These laws are called religious rules. In every faith, in every teaching, there are religious rules of life, and a woman must be familiar with them in order to know whether it corresponds to the law or not, what a man requires of her. If this is not in accordance with the law, then she should gently, in a humble manner, object to him, and there will be nothing wrong with that. But if she is not familiar with the laws of life, does not know how to organize everything correctly, then when her husband reprimands her or simply invites her to do something in some way, she may not agree and a conflict arises.

  The fourth quality is that a woman should be able to speak pleasantly. When she speaks pleasantly, even if she feels offended and annoyed, pleasant speech creates an impression of respect. Pleasant speech means that the person speaks respectfully. Respectful speech softens conflict. It enables people to find a common opinion, because respectful speech naturally brings everyone into a state of peace.

  The fifth quality is that a woman should also be able to speak truthfully. When a husband notices that his wife is at least a little disingenuous with him, he is completely disappointed in her.

  The seventh quality is to always be attentive. This is a very important point. It often happens that because of inattention people quarrel and lose each other. Mindfulness means to guess the bad moment of your husband's life, to guess the bad moment of your children's life. Every person has a bad period in life. Close people should be careful and guess this bad period. Thus, one must be attentive to changes in one's close friends.

  The eighth quality is to be pure. We have already dismantled this quality.

  Thus, having all these eight qualities, a woman becomes chaste, that is, she does not have the slightest desire to go somewhere and do illegal things with some other person.

  All of the above qualities can be called in one word - female virtue. Virtue means "to do good." A man in his own way does good in this world, a woman in her own way. And there are signs of female virtue. They form four postulates.

  FIRST POSTULATE - serving your husband. Service to the husband, in turn, is divided into 5 principles of service to the husband. To serve means to help him. It is said that a woman who has embarked on the path of serving her husband becomes absolutely protected from all difficulties in life, because a man is unable to leave a woman who serves him. He is unable to change her. A man is not able to speak badly about her, even if she has flaws. And a man is incapable of endangering such a woman if she truly serves him.

  The SECOND POSTULATE of female virtue is benevolence towards her husband. This principle exists independently of the others. Each principle is fundamental, that is, having one of them, a woman automatically becomes virtuous towards her husband, and he perceives her as a person who brings him great benefit.

  THIRD POSTULATE - a good relationship with relatives and friends of the husband. Observance of this principle also makes it possible to have stable relationships in the family, because when discord begins in the family, then, undoubtedly, the husband's relatives and friends will help the wife understand this person. Although they will act from his position, but since they are her friends, they will communicate with her very secretly and try to explain why he behaves this way. And in the end they will reconcile.

  THE FOURTH POSTULATE, although it is in fourth place, is in fact one of the most important. This is the sharing with the husband of the vows he has taken. A vow means giving up certain activities with the desire to achieve some goal. A person refuses to do something, or vice versa says: "I will always do something to achieve such and such a goal." A wife shares his vows with her husband, for example, if the husband says: “I will never eat meat food - it prevents me from clearing my problems. I want to have a good mood in life,” and the wife says, “I want to do that too.” So they take this vow of vegetarianism, which is very popular in India. As a result, the whole family becomes vegetarian. When they share common vows in life, it helps them a lot for common progress, for good relationships with

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If you are new to tarot, you can start learning with the most popular tarot deck, the Rider Waite deck. It's easy to understand, the images are straight forward and practical, and there's a wealth of information available for this deck. If you are more experienced or looking for a new deck, you can choose a deck like the Tato Tarot deck. Or a more abstract, mythical tarot deck. Are you fascinated by old traditional tarot decks like Tarot de Marseille, Tarot Visconti? Or do you prefer modern (and often independent) tarot decks?

4. Find the size that fits

Tarot cards come in different sizes. You must choose the size that suits you. Giant tarot cards can be great for group readings or tarot parties. regular cards Tarot may be better for personal divination to a client or personal readings. And the mini tarot cards are perfect to put in your purse for tarot readings on the go. If the cards are too big or too small, they may be too uncomfortable for you or your clients. Therefore, before choosing a deck, hold the cards and shuffle them.

Think about what tarot lessons you want to take. Are you trying to find peace and tranquility in your life? Then Taro Osho Zen might be the perfect deck for you. Do you want to connect with your inner goddess? Consider mythical goddess Tarot or Goddess Tarot decks. Do you have a passion for rituals and practices on earth? Check out the Druid Tarot deck.

The great thing is that with so many tarot decks, you can find a deck that is perfect for your personal needs and desires. And if you're a professional tarot expert, consider getting a few different tarot decks, depending on what works best for your client and situation.